An example of a vintage Valentine's Day ad
Valentine's Day has been tied to commercialism for centuries, and complaints about these ties are nothing new. Ads for the holiday tend to focus on promoting cultural norms related to consumerism, emphasizing that the best way you can spend your Valentine's Day is by getting your significant other a gift to make them appreciate you more--often using sexual innuendos to highlight the pros of buying specific goods.
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| A Valentine's Day ad from Natan, a jewelry company, with obvious sexual connotations |
Ads like the one featured above rely on sexist messaging to sell products. The message in this particular ad tells male consumers that giving their loved ones expensive diamond rings will literally make them open up their legs. The use of common feminine posture and clothing reinforces this message. It not so subtly suggests that a woman's heart can be "bought," for the right price. Other ads can be a little more subtle with this theme, although such ads don't explicitly discourage the norm created by other ads.
Dairy Queen's Valentine's Day ad from 2016
Some ads, however, take a satirical approach to the holiday. In 2016, for example, Dairy Queen launched a satirical ad which ridiculed the ties between the holiday and commercialism. The ad itself starts out like a typical Valentine's Day ad, featuring a couple cuddled together near a fireplace. The man takes out a gift, giving it to his significant other, who opens it...revealing a red spoon. The ad is meant to promote a new red velvet cake from Dairy Queen. As Megan Gerber points out, the ad pokes fun at the stale, often sexist conventions of the commercialized Valentine’s Day. The ad is ridiculing the notion that buying someone a gift will make them swoon, confronting the cultural standards set by other ads. It should be emphasized that the ad is still actively trying to sell a product, however, sending a message that consumerism is still ultimately the best way to win someone over on Valentine's Day.
Valentine's Day ads also tend to focus on gender and relationship norms as well, generally featuring a man and a woman. Some ads in recent years have gone against this established norm, instead featuring LGBT+ couples in their Valentine's Day ads. Lush, a cosmetics company known for its "ethical" stances, launched an ad campaign on social media for the recent holiday featuring same-sex couples. The ads, according to a spokesperson for the company, were meant to show that love transcends gender. While the ads still promoted a product, they went against traditional social norms while simultaneously focusing on couples being together, minimizing the commercial aspect of the ads.






